High Conflict Psychological Assessments

Our high conflict couples assessments are catered towards couples who feel stuck in repetitive patterns that they haven’t been able to break through therapy. We know how frustrating, exhausting, and scary it can be to feel like you’re spinning your wheels in your relationship and can’t get out of the rut. We create bespoke assessments by choosing a psychological test battery fit to address your relationship’s specific needs and challenges.

When couples feel stuck in couples therapy, like the treatment has stagnated and they’re not making gains, therapists and couples come to us to get the therapy moving again. Couples therapy feels rejuvenated after they receive the feedback from a couples assessment.

Questions you might hope to answer:

“How do we break out of our negative cycle together?”

“I feel like I’ve tried everything. What else could I be doing to better reach my partner?”

“What will it take to save our relationship?”

Take our quiz to see if this assessment is right for you:

High Conflict Assessment Readiness Quiz

This quiz is not medically diagnostic.

This quiz provides general educational feedback only and should not be used as a diagnosis.

High Conflict Assessment Readiness Quiz

Goals for Assessment

We are attracted to a short-term, time-limited option for improving our relationship.

High Conflict Assessment Readiness Quiz

Emotions & Relationship Dynamics

We get stuck in a repetitive conflict pattern even though we can see it coming.

High Conflict Assessment Readiness Quiz

Emotions & Relationship Dynamics

Sometimes emotions get the better of (or feel overwhelming for) one or both of us.

High Conflict Assessment Readiness Quiz

Emotions & Relationship Dynamics

It feels like we know what we need to change about our relationship but we have difficulty actually implementing the changes and don’t understand why.

High Conflict Assessment Readiness Quiz

Self Awareness & Contextual Factors

While we know ourselves and our relationship well, there are still aspects that feel mysterious to us.

High Conflict Assessment Readiness Quiz

Self Awareness & Contextual Factors

We feel confused about why our relationship isn’t thriving.

High Conflict Assessment Readiness Quiz

Self Awareness & Contextual Factors

Even though things feel difficult, we are both hoping to make the relationship work.

High Conflict Assessment Readiness Quiz

Openness & Curiosity

We wonder about how our individual experiences and personalities influence our relationship dynamic.

High Conflict Assessment Readiness Quiz

Openness & Curiosity

We want to learn more about ourselves and why we feel the things we feel or do the things we do in our relationship.

High Conflict Assessment Readiness Quiz

Openness & Curiosity

We are both invested in this process and open to changing things about how we show up to our relationship.

High Conflict Assessment Readiness Quiz

Goals for Assessment

We want guidance on how we can both change to positively improve our relationship.

High Conflict Assessment Readiness Quiz

Goals for Assessment

We have specific questions about our relationship that we hope the assessment will answer.

High Conflict Assessment Readiness Quiz

Goals for Assessment

We are looking for a different way to improve our relationship besides (or in addition to) therapy.

High Conflict Assessment Readiness Quiz

Goals for Assessment

We want specific information and actionable steps to improve our relationship.

High Conflict Assessment Readiness Quiz

You and your partner may be strong candidates for our high conflict assessment. Your needs align with the unique benefits that this assessment can provide.

You may benefit from this assessment to clarify dynamics and build on strengths. Couples therapy may also be an option.

The two of you together may not feel ready right now for this assessment, but individual therapy might be a better fit. Talking about your problems one on one is often more straightforward and a great place to clarify goals for the relationship before bringing the discussion to your partner.

Contact us for more information.